Build confidence, recover from rejection, and share your work with joy using a simple one-page sticker-chart system that makes self-promotion playful (and sustainable).
Marketing your creative work makes you want to hide under the covers.
Rejection (or fear of it) keeps you from pitching, posting, or pressing send.
You want consistent, values-aligned visibility — without burnout or sleaze.
It was everything I’d ever wanted — lots of sunlight, near all the LGBTQ bars in San Diego, and within walking distance of Balboa Park.
There was just one problem: I couldn’t quite afford the mortgage.
I’d built incredible creative programs for School for Writers®, but I wasn’t actually putting them out into the world. Every marketing class I’d taken made me feel like I had to trick people into buying — and I refused to build my business that way.
Still, I needed to sell my services — not just to make a living, but to have the impact I knew I could make… and, honestly, to pay that new mortgage.
I threw out all the “shoulds” of traditional marketing and created a fun, colorful, joyful system based on the sticker charts I loved as a kid.
Every time I reached out to someone, I gave myself a sticker. That dopamine hit ked me going past rejection and into UNPRECEDENTED REWARDS.
Even more than financial abundance, I had a brand-new sense of confidence that I hadn’t felt in years.
Stop waiting to “feel ready.” You’ll create steady momentum through small, manageable asks that rebuild self-trust.
Learn to see “no” as information, not failure — and keep moving toward your goals with resilience and grace.
Replace fear with curiosity. Marketing becomes a creative act again.
Your one-page sticker chart keeps everything simple, visual, and actually fun to use.
Whether that’s publishing your book, booking more clients, or pitching your next opportunity, 33 Asks® adapts to your creative path.
You’ll stop waiting to “feel ready” and start building momentum through small, steady action. Each ask makes the next one easier.
You’ll learn to face rejection with curiosity, not shame — so you bounce back faster and keep creating without spiraling.
No sleazy sales tactics, no forced personas. You’ll share your work in ways that feel authentic, not performative.
You’ll replace the constant hustle with a sustainable rhythm that honors your capacity and creativity.
You’ll remember that your work is worth sharing — and you’ll have the tools and confidence to do it.
Seriously, this is life changing stuff. It’s all about putting yourself out there, asking for what you want and watching as the universe ushers it into your arms.
Lauren is an INCREDIBLE coach and human being who will have your back in all the scary moments before you hit send on your asks — because it will be scary and a little out of your comfort zone (in a good way!).
Whether you’re applying it to scaling your business, finding your next client, job-hunting or your dating life (yes it all applies), you’re going to find just what you need in this workshop.
If you’re ready to change your life, your business and how you see the world, 33 Asks is FOR YOU.
I’ve loved the process of linking my legacy to what I want and need and then coming up with asks that support those.
I realized in 33 Asks that so much of my approach to business has been focused on what my clients will pay for instead of what really excited and energizes me. These are different energies!!
I also loved the creativity of adding stickers and colorful charts to track and celebrate momentum. I needed more fun infused into my sales and marketing process and this is it!
Thank you for bringing such a compassionate, creative, wonderful group of diverse people together for this experience, Lauren!!
… how they connect with and support my overall desire to grow as a working artist(my legacy), and the momentum in how to pursue these goals with joy and delight.
The group support was so beautiful to experience – I felt very connected to everyone on the calls, and it helped me to open myself to new possibilities and insights.
The process itself was fun and full of joy, I can see myself implementing this process in many aspects of my life in the future. Loved it.
… (which is a part of my career and my passion), while also giving me measurable goals and steps to be able to visualize what success looks like for myself creatively, financially, and with how I use my precious time on earth.
It’s been great connecting with other folks who are running or starting retreats, and being able to organize and manage my thoughts regarding the path forward.
The 3 questions and 33 asks approach is very grounding and doable, a more approachable format than the linear “baby steps” approach for my chaos brain.
33 Asks® is a one-time investment that supports your creative confidence for life.
This program is truly life-changing – but don’t just take my word for it.
If you join 33 Asks®, watch all the videos, and genuinely implement the work, yet still feel it wasn’t worth your investment, I’ll refund your tuition, no questions asked.
"[I found] new ways of infusing fun in the day-to-day and a clarification of my deepest desires." - Elyse Hughes, author
"I really loved setting up my sticker chart! I asked a client for more money 💰." – Yuliya, storyteller
"My win was connecting with new, inspired and engaged community! The people here are so wonderful!" – Elle Tomie, coach, mentor + mystic
Every human is a creative person! Creativity is quite literally what defines our humanity and sets us apart from other animals.
Did you play make believe as a kid?
Did you finger paint?
Did you tell stories or write poems or come up with elaborate ideas for weird new worlds?
We are born creative, and then school and society teaches us to “behave” and “grow up”. We’re told following the rules and solving formulas will bring us success, but the reality is that all great inventions, discoveries, businesses, social movements, and works of art all require creativity, joy, and yes – fun!
If you want to try to put yourself out there, market your creative projects, and make money in a way that feels colorful and fun, then this workshop is for you!
Let’s break down the time commitment:
Your total time commitment is about 6-8 hours during the whole month we host it live. Plus, time to cheer on your fellow participants in the Facebook group.
Remember: all calls are recorded and you have lifetime access to the material and Facebook group, so you can go at your own pace.
You get instant access to the classroom and Facebook group as soon as you enroll. Plus, you get LIFETIME ACCESS to both, so you can watch the videos again and get support from your new network of friends anytime you need it.
Plus, when you enroll now you also get to join us for all future live coaching calls!
As long as we are offering 33 Asks™, you get to join in as an alum. Pretty great, right?!
If you join 33 Asks™, take all the coursework, join the community, ask for help, and still hate it, we’ll refund you your tuition. All requests for refunds must be made within 2 weeks of purchase. After that, we will not offer any refunds.
While the price of 33 Asks™ is a GREAT deal for this high-end program, we’ve been broke artists before and understand that many creatives lack access to resources, especially those who come from historically marginalized and systemically oppressed communities.
Which is why we offer 10% of spots in all our programs as scholarships to people who would otherwise not be able to afford it.
On top of that 10% of spots saved for people who would otherwise not be able to afford the program, this workshop is always free to refugees, people seeking asylum, people experiencing homelessness, anyone on permanent disability, or members of any indigienous tribe, including the Kumeyaay, who are the original inhabitants of the stolen land on which Lauren lives and School for Writers operates.
To apply for a scholarship, fill out this application.
Please note: we have found that people who invest a bit of money in a program are more likely to show up and invest their time as well. The scholarships for 33 Asks are $33 for partial and $3.33 for full.
Through her programs, coaching, and podcast, Lauren Marie Fleming has helped thousands of people transform their lives through writing and storytelling.
A farmer’s daughter with a law degree and witchy intuition, Lauren noticed at a young age that there weren’t enough queer stories like hers out in the world, so she started writing them herself. A born leader, she realized her stories weren’t enough and began helping her friends tell theirs as well––and make money doing it!
For over three decades, Lauren has worked with some of the world’s most distinguished celebrities, presenters and authors, including two years directly supporting Tony Robbins on his content and coaching the speakers on his stage.
Lauren and her work have been featured in prominent media outlets including Good Morning America, Glamour, xoJane, Autostraddle, and Cosmo, and she has had recurring columns for Curve Magazine, Vice Magazine, and the Huffington Post.
She is a highly sought after public speaker and has presented at prestigious conferences and colleges including Yale, Brown, Wordstock, BinderCon, and BlogHer.
Lauren is an avid reader, has lived all over the world, and will try anything once, as long as it’s gluten free. When not traveling, Lauren can be found walking her dog on the beach in San Diego listening to a good audiobook.
My biggest win is connecting with new, inspired and engaged community! The people here are so wonderful! Practicing more safety in being visible and in asking more than giving all the time; building stronger community ties through my asks!
I feel great and am grateful for the depth of coaching and community care in this program. This was the most diverse group I’ve been part of on a “marketing” call.
33 Asks™ dramatically changed how I view my sales process!
I was struggling with profits and sign ups, and Lauren coached me on the strategy. I used it for a webinar and had a huge turn out! I made over $1,500!
I still use the structure of 33 Asks™ for sales and swear by it!
Make it fun and they will come!
Making my 33 Asks sticker chart brought me even more joy than I was expecting. I’ve connected with a few people in the group and that’s been enriching. I also feel more connected and clearer with my own goals and timeline and am enjoying the playful momentum this program brings.
I feel connected back to my why and it’s helping me remember WHY I am asking, why I need what I need, and why I am doing what I am doing.
This group is FIRE!
33 Asks® has moved me out of my comfort zone to share with others my thoughts and ideas and not afraid to ask questions. I liked being a participant on a team that doesn't involve sports.
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